To the
dismay of my family, I was always a “chatty” child. I could talk
for hours about anything and everything. My father responded to my
ramblings by saying, “You rattle and rattle and don’t say nothin’.”
However, when I asked QUESTIONS…“Why did the mother bird just kick
the baby out of the nest?”, “Why is it called ‘greasy grass’?” or
“What is the name of this flower?”…he patiently responded to each
inquiry, telling me that no question was ever so small that the
answer couldn’t generate a better understanding of the world and our
relationships in it. Questions are like wrapping paper, he said.
You have to tug at the surface to get to the answers hidden beneath.
So it should be no
surprise that the answer to one small question I recently asked has
resulted in a greater awareness of some intriguing relationships
within our grandparents’ community. My question? “What, or who,
sparked Pete Deremer’s interest in our family tree?”
It all started when
Briana’s son, Pete, told me he wanted to create a family tree on his
personal website. “To be honest,” Pete replied to my
question, “others did not spark (my interest) in it…I was curious to
see what happens when you add information from every family member
you know and put it into one spot.
“I was playing around
just reading articles about (family tree) software…and was able to
go to the Ancestry site and
get a lot of information there,” Pete continued. “Melanie (Fouse –
who manages the
Spiker tree on Ancestry.com) is going to be giving me all the
information she has…and I will be uploading it to the website.
“Our family is
huge…why not create a general site where family – even extremely
extended – can update and view their side? I think of it as ‘the
power of many’ verses ‘the power of one’. The long-term goal is
simple. Get a 100% family tree.”
Excited that Pete was
discovering the fun of tracing our roots, I told him he was joining
a long line of family members that have been bitten by the genealogy
“bug.” His great-grandfather, Jacob, had a sister-in-law (Laura),
two siblings (Pearly and Gracie) and two children (Bradford &
Geneva) that were all known to have recorded and shared important
family history through Family Bibles, personal accounts and
letters. My mother, Willa Dean, spent many hours recording data
from area courthouses and later joined my sisters, Melanie and
Cathy, in mapping and photographing the tombstones at family
cemeteries (click here to view some of
those photos.)
But perhaps most
interestingly to Pete was that his grandfather, Brad, had written “The
Good-Will Community, A History of Holbrook, W.Va., 1814-1945,” a
document often cited as a valuable and reliable source by other
genealogists. Pete said, “Grandpa’s book about the Oxford community
was a big surprise to me….I didn’t know (he wrote) that.”
Hoping to encourage
Pete to explore his history a little further, I decided to do some
sleuthing on my own. Perhaps I could find out more about the
history of his grandfather’s manuscript. When and why was it
written? Was it transcribed exactly as written? Were the
misspellings intentional to stay true to the original text? Who is
in possession of the original document now?
And so my questions
snowballed, and the surprising community connections these questions
uncovered began to unfold…
The transcribed
document (Click here to read entire manuscript)
indicates it was “Written by Bradford Spiker, Compiled by Barr
Wilson and Printed by John M. DeBrular March 21, 1997.”
The introduction reads, “The following local history was found by
the late Charles Porter DeBrular and his son Robert, in a old
abandoned house near Holbrook. It was written by Bradford Spiker,
when he taught the local school and resided in this house. As far as
is known he never made copies of this history. When he left this
area he left the History behind.”
Armed with the name
“John M. DeBrular”, I scoured the Internet to find a way to contact
the man that had printed the document. After several false leads, I
finally found a current e-mail address. He responded to my numerous
questions about the manuscript as follows:
“What I know of the
article is shown in the article itself. My uncle who was one of the
discoverers of this treasure is still living. Some criticized
him for removing the writing from the home and I understand their
feelings. I asked my uncle and he said that they felt that it was an
old writing in an old house and their desire was to make sure that
it got to a place where it would be preserved. Barr Wilson was
probably the most well-known and respected historical person in the
county, and a good friend of the family, and they thought that it
would be safe with him. It was Barr that took it to the next level
and I believe that Barr transcribed exactly as it was written. I
believe that it was written sometime around 1937 - 1940 period and
at that time there was a program that encouraged people to write
about their communities and that this writing is a response to that.
Now that is my opinion and I have nothing to back this up at all.
Barr Wilson had possession of this writing and the Ritchie County
Historical Society received all of his historical documents so
it might be in their possession.”
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He went on to say, “The Spiker family lived at the entrance of Bear
Run and my Great Grandfather and his family lived about 1/2 mile up
Bear Run. Jean Haught and my father were very close and played
together as children when they both lived there. The Spiker family and
my family were always very close and maintained a wonderful
relationship. It is only the variances of time and distances that
separate us today.”
Thinking my mother may recognize the DeBrular name, I called to tell
her I’d been in contact with John Maxwell DeBrular. Did she know
him? No. But she informed me that she and Daddy had purchased their
first home from a man named “Port” DeBrular. Is there any relation?
Yes. John confirmed to me that Charles Porter “Port” DeBrular was his
grandfather.
John also mentioned that his father, John Kenneth “Scotty” DeBrular,
was born in that home. He asked if I could provide any details or
photos of the farm. A call back to Mother resulted in her narrating a
fascinating tale about her and Daddy’s life at the former DeBrular
homestead. (Click
here to read Dean’s story.)
In the meantime,
Mr. DeBrular forwarded to me a copy of his own family history. The
contents revealed that he had once worked at Wright Wholesale Grocery
for Orville and Gerry Bonnell. I promptly informed John that Orville
is my mother’s brother. And, according to my mother’s story, John’s
former employer had helped my father run the electric wiring in their
home on Bear Run.
Mr. DeBruler then revealed that his mother, Mary Grace Maxwell-Debrular
was related to Aunt Jean’s husband, Ed Haught. Of course, this also
means that John and his mother are distantly related to Sue Ann
Spiker.
I then shared a couple photos with Mr. DeBruler: one of Civil
War Vet “John DeBrular” at the 1920 Zinn
Family Reunion (see pic below), and
one of my grandmother Gay Spiker wearing a necklace she received at
age 16 from John’s grandfather, Porter DeBrular (click
here to see image -- photo is at the top of the page.)
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Zinn Reunion 1920
Front Row L. to
R.: Okey Zinn, Robert Britton, Clyde Husk, Floyd Sommerville,
Glen Maxon, Reed Zinn, Ralph Woods, World War #1 Vets -- except
Floyd Sommerville, Spanish American War. Back Row L. to R.:
Bukey Zinn, Thomas Zinn, Granville Zinn, T.J. Elliott, Buckner
Zinn, Davey Gray, John DeBrular. All Civil War Vets. |
We had no idea there
were so many connections between our families!
And now Pete Deremer
wants to learn more about connections. Unlike Melanie’s tree on
Ancestry.com, which primarily focuses on her paternal (Spiker) and
maternal (Bonnell) relatives, Pete wants to expand his personal tree
beyond the immediate family to include every possible branch, every
possible extension, every possible connection. Both trees are free to
view; visitors to either site need only to register as guests for
admittance. As you scroll through the names and documents and photos,
their questions to you are, “Can you fill in this blank in our family
history? Do you have a story to share?”
If you think you don’t
have anything to contribute, keep this in mind… there were several
facts about my mother’s first home that I hadn’t known. When I asked
her why she’d never shared these details before, she replied, “I guess
it was because I didn’t think anyone was interested.” Well, I’m
interested. And so is Pete. And so is John. And so are many
generations that will come after us.
Had I not asked Pete
the first question, “What, or who, sparked your interest in the family
tree,” I wouldn’t have asked the many questions that followed. And I
may never have heard the many answers that revealed such intriguing
relationships between generations of the Spiker and the DeBrular
families.
I
haven’t reached the end of my quest to learn more about Uncle Brad’s
manuscript. I’m continuing to ask questions that – just as my father
said – may lead to a better understanding of (the Spiker family’s)
world and our relationships in it. Daddy’s point was…we should all
“chatter” more. We should show more interest. We should ask more
questions. And we absolutely must write down the answers. It's our
gift to each generation that
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